Mammimak Kids teach you how parents should praise their children
No doubt, children need praise. However, excessive, vague and inaccurate praise may bring about various negative effects. If parents want to test their own praise is appropriate, as long as the performance of children can know. Performance 1: Always wait for their parents to praise Scene: Cocoa mother often praise on her daughter, so every day, like a small magpie Lok Coca-Cola, from time to time to his mother said: "I have already done this mother," "I mom again That "and then look forward to my mother's compliment. Analysis: The child has relied on the word of praise, her purpose of doing things is entirely to mom invitations. If Mom did not praise her once and for all, she would lose her mind. Tip: Parents should appropriately suppress their impulse to praise, so praise has become more valuable. When the baby walked alone for the first time, the first complete recitation of a Tang poem would indeed make the whole family happy. However, if it is just something that needs to be done daily, such as calling a mother before urinating or landing the sofa smoothly from the ground, you will not have to praise or praise teachers. Performance 2: Face disappointment in the face of disappointment: Mom said Wen Wen: We play bead games together, okay? Wenwen very happy: "good! Good!" Because this is her best game. Sure enough, Wen Wen quickly put the bead in his hand. "Awesome, can wear it so fast!" However, Wen Wen showed disappointment on her mother's presentation. Analysis: Perhaps my mother underestimated the child's ability, so praising did not make the child happy. The child has long learned to wear beads, mom also looked very surprised to "praise" him, the child can not disappoint after listening to it? Tip: Parents should understand their child's interests and current abilities, as well as the average child of the same age, and then evaluate the child at a fair level. Praise to grow with children's abilities. Performance 3: praised but under pressure Scenarios: In the district, where mothers are facing other mothers, not only are not they eager to eat, they eat fast and eat fast. The rest of the long felt stressful, because he always fall behind other children eating in kindergarten. Analysis: My mother's praise may not only not accurate, but also very exaggerated. This exaggerated compliment, for children is a kind of pressure, let him feel heavy. Moreover, mom also over-praised him in front of other moms, making him disgusted, because it is not true that the child has heard her mother's words. Tip: Specific, appropriate and praised, but will make children feel affirmed, but also understand that efforts should be made. At the same time also allows him to understand the appropriate restraint and subtlety is also a beauty. Performance 4: Praise but sad to hear the scene: That morning, my mother would like to praise Ningning to wear their own clothes, and blurted out: "Who said we Ningning will not wear their own clothes? Inverse, ha ha, zipper went up to the buttocks ... ... "Ning Ning after listening to tears. Analysis: Some words about mother's worries, some kind of joke, but will dampen the child's self-esteem. Such a small child, it is best to give him a clear language, in the end what is worth praising, rather than such ambiguous semi-praise joking. Tip: For children under 3 years old, do not get too involved in his mistakes. To accomplish one thing independently is worthy of recognition in its own right. The details of harmlessness should not be seen. Tips for complimenting with body language: If a 4-year-old child takes a toy into his box, while praising it, he can pat his back or touch his little head with his hands to let the child feel the praise and encouragement . Reward Yang: Instead of praising children draw well, it is better to paste the painting on the door. Praise when looking for inadequate: In recognition of the same time, the most gentle language to the child to make a better proposal, to help children get greater improvement. Mamimaka, China's top ten children's wear brand. With the core values of "Encouragement, Creation, Care and Dedication", we devote ourselves to creating a children's clothing culture and a colorful children's world.
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